missing in actions

well... didnt know while i was away from miri, tht much changed... more than what i ever thought of... i thought it was only the girls tht recently had problem with "partnership"... boys too... two of my best friend broke off from what seems to be their destiny... and i was "bitching around" to my good friend over those things... i guess well life is not so straight forward in many ways... well issue needs to be resolved... in a corect manners. think bout a big.. wait i mean huge problem in your relationship and you are not happy with it... talking it out to your partner is a right thing to do... when the opposite side dont take it... you shout about it... come on guys... be brave shout it out... quarrel over it on purpose...

ok... think i am crazee now? well i am... look at my nick... but the reason why i say this is because many time jus talking about a big problem tend to make the opposite site think tht it only bothers you... and you are ok with it... but jus dun over do it... well they responded quite naturally with a nod but nothing change... so i suggest shouting it out... sort of waking the opposite up and make sure it really hits him... and hits hard...

but then these could only leads to two possible endings... moving on to a better more closer relationship or breaking a relationship into piece that you would never be able to reattach them back... but hey both are good news... first one: you know the opposite is serious about the relationship and she knows it too... and i could only predict a more fruitful relationship after this... then the second one: well she is not even serious... i mean who couldnt stand a shouting before? i think her parents do shout at her to wake her up right? so why cant you wake her up... and since she is not serious then why move on... things are going to end sooner or later...

but the later it ends the painful it is...